My husband is with another woman he wears his wedding ring and refuses to divorce me? March 15, 2010
I am so annoyed . my husband is unemployed and i work…. he will not go for a divorce, even though he is living with another woman, he still wears my weding ring on his other hand, i just cant work him out. I do not have the £1500.00 to divorce him, but i want rid of him and an end to all of this.
He lies all the time … he told me he was working and couldnt afford a divorce ….. all lies… his brother said he does not want to divorce me …. ha well is he in for a shock……. i guess i will have to work two jobs to get rid of him …. thanks everyone xxxx
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he sounds like a wanker
If you want to divorce him, you will find the money to do so – otherwise the situation will not change. Up to you when you want to really be done with him.
well maybe you should try marriage counseling! plz this could really work!
save all the extra money you have so you can do this
Is there anyone who can help you with the financial costs? Perhaps there is a lawyer you can call, just to inform about your options?
I can only foresee a lawyer being able to help you. Check out services that offer free legal advice and maybe that will help give you some direction to getting rid of the dead weight that is your husband.
It will be far cheaper to divorce him than to continue this sham of a marriage. Find an attorney who will accept payments. If he’s not working, he certainly cannot afford to file. So you go get the divorce.
where i live it is $250 to file for divorce…find a way
Is consent of both parties required for divorce in the UK? If not, change the locks and divorce that leech!
Talk to a lawyer. There may be other options or ways to lower the cost. Otherwise, keep saving and move on with your life. One way or another you will get your divorce, he might want to marry this other woman one day and he can’t do that while married to you.
Maybe you should sue him for at least half of the money you need to make the divorce sue him. Since he’s not living with you and it sounds like there’s no intention on getting back together this may be your only option.
Sue him for divorce.
he probably doesn’t want the divorce because if you have assets he would have to split them 50/50. I would see if you could contact a legal aide, or borrow the money but as long as you remain married he can run up bills on you, ruin your credit, and continue to humiliate and break your heart.
My best advice would be to talk to a divorce lawyer. Most divorce lawyers will see you for free the first time around and they can give you great advice on how to proceed in the way of getting proof of his adultery so he doesn’t have a say in whether or not you stay with him.
And be sure to ask the judge for the ring back. The ring is part of the contract that is marriage, and he broke the contract so you have a right to take that contract back!
This is what i went through, my husband wouldnt devorce me because he wanted me to pay for it. Try going to the courts explain whats going on tell them how long you have been seperated for if u have proof show it. Then tell them that you would like to share the cost with him for the devorce settlement. Is there materialistic items hes wanting cos thats another thing or hes well finaned???????????
Divorce him anyway. Let him keep thing ring why should you care all you want
from him is a divorce. Once you file for a divorce he will take you serious.
There is a website (i cant remember the name tho) but search it through google. Its a quick and easy process and u can be divorced within hours/days/weeks. Hes obviously trying to keep a connection with you. He doesnt need to sign anything either. You will be free at last. Good luck
My advice is to divorce him, u need to in order t lead a healthy life. it seems like he’s holding you back from progressing. you may not have the money now but save gradually everyday and you will have i eventually. You don’t want an arse like that hanging around in your life if you want to be happy (no offense to your husband). he’s moved on, he didn’t divorce you but he has another woman. That’s a sign large enough for you to know that it’s time to leave him.
Start having sex with one of his family members. Preferable one of his parents or both to guarantee that he’ll want to divorce you.
There is a solution to your problem it is call uncontested divorce, n you can find a lawyer according to your budget. There is no reason why you should stay with this man, especially living with someone else, oh by the way, there are grounds in that too. Your ex soon to be is only trying to stay with you so that whatever he can get from you he can get, since you are still married to him. There are so many laws for these so call man that a woman could do, to it and find that right lawyer.Best of luck
people have to be very careful crossing the street
they should look both ways
You better divorce him. If he is living with another woman and runs up a bunch of credit card charges and bills, you will have to pay 1/2…..for your own financial future, spend the money now and get an attorney. All you need to do is file for separation, you can probably investigate the web and find out how to do it yourself.